My Story


After being in a committed relationship for several years, with 2 children, gaps in our visions and sexual desires started to arise. We went to therapy, and also attempted to open up the relationship, but we kept on fighting each other, trying to convince, negotiate, and see our personal needs as right and more important.


It took me a while to realize and learn that in a loving relationship decisions can be done as a team, with collaboration, rather than compromises that keep us both unhappy.


With the time I learned to open to experience and express all my emotions, including sadness, pain, as well as deeper joy. With that I learned how taking full responsibility makes me much more free and loving to my partner.

Today I am in a loving relationship that has deep conection, strong passion, and openness to grow and learn from each other.


Since 2006, I’ve guided people in discovering new ways of relating, healing old wounds, and building relationships that are more conscious, loving, and alive.


My background includes:
● Gestalt Therapy
● Group Facilitation
● PAIRS Relationship Counseling
● Co-Active Coaching
● Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

I also authored Relationship Now (Hebrew, 2011), a book exploring ways of creating a sustainable relationship, by taking full ownership over our choices.


Why I do this work?

At the heart of it all is a simple truth: people in loving relationships are happier. I learned from my pains and from walking an unconventional path, often different from the common norms, and even common psychology. I wish to bring this knowledge not only through the mind, but also through experiences to all.

I am doing this through relationship circles, workshops, and one-on-one coaching: so you can explore and practice ways of connecting to yourself and your partner, not only by talking about it.

How I Work

In every session, circle, and workshop, I bring together the tools of counseling, coaching, and facilitation from all the tools I learned with the deeper wisdom of what is present at the right moment. Guiding to follow our heart desire, rather than what our mind knows.


My approach is:

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